Summer and Lingerie

Have you taken the time to think how hot it will be this summer? Have you thought how hot you could look this summer? Hot lingerie and hot summer nights go hand and hand. As the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Everyone looks very hot in lingerie. Whether you are a man or woman hot lingerie will look and feel wonderful on you. Your lover will agree and appreciate the fact that you put some thought into your spicy hot summer nights. The soft lingerie glides over your skin on a hot summer’s night. You can just feel the silkiness on your skin just thinking about it. Your lover will look forward to more and more exciting hot summer nights.

Hot lingerie comes in a variety of colors and fabric to choose from. Check out some hot lingerie online today. You will have dreams about how great you look in hot lingerie. Never owned a piece of hot lingerie? Why not start today? Today is the beginning of a new you. Take the time to surprises the one you love with some hot lingerie. You will find that your partner will be just as excited about your lingerie as you will be. Go ahead and pamper your self. You will be thankful that you did. Feeling and looking hot in lingerie will become a way of life once you try on a piece of hot lingerie.

By Edward Felix

Womens Lingerie

Women’s lingerie is an important part of every woman’s wardrobe. Since it is an intimate piece of clothing, the design and manufacture of women’s lingerie is done with lots of care and designing. Sometimes so much thought and care is put in women’s lingerie that it proves to be difficult to make the right choice on the women’s lingerie.

Women’s’ lingerie is made from numerous materials like silk, nylon and chiffon which are available in numerous styles and sizes. It is possible to buy women’s lingerie both from departmental and lingerie stores and also through the many online lingerie stores of the internet. Today many women prefer to do their shopping for women’s lingerie through the internet as there is no need of traveling to the store for shopping.

Moreover, there is no chance of getting embarrassed for buying women’s lingerie, if it is bought via the internet. When buying from the internet, it is possible to choose different styles of lingerie, view them on the website, and then decide on the best women’s lingerie to be bought. Once the order for the women’s lingerie is placed, the retailers ship them in simple boxes to your home, to avoid the prying eyes of curious neighbors and family members.

When buying women’s lingerie, it is always better to buy them from the more reputed retailers. This is because the rates will be more reasonable here and they offer size charts that can be used as a guide when buying women’s lingerie. There are some women’s lingerie items found in a standard size to fit anybody.

Today women find leather lingerie to be a very popular type of women’s lingerie. Of course, there are also the many lace and satin lingerie for you to choose from when buying your women’s lingerie. When buying women’s lingerie, it is better to experiment with the various styles and textures of women’s lingerie available in the market by buying them from the wholesale and discount retailers at discounted rates. With this, it is possible for a woman to buy some women’s lingerie in different designs, and affordable rates.

The different types of women’s lingerie that are available today are the numerous corsets, brassieres, panties, thongs, pantyhose, stockings and teddy. Unseated of buying the same type of women’s lingerie all the time, it proves to be interesting and more exciting to try the different types of lingerie when buying women’s lingerie. After all, variety is the spice of life!

By Jack Stephan

Sex for Holiday Lovers!

The holidays are a great time for couples to share intimate and erotic moments. Here are some great holiday opportunities to get close and intimate and experience erotic moments like never before!

1. Sex at a Holiday party! Going to a Christmas or Holiday party can be an excellent opportunity for sexual intimacy to occur. And for the adventurous, intimacy can occur during the actual party itself! A holiday party provides an awesome environment where everyone is in a great mood, the booze is flowing freely, and holiday cheer and well being is in the air. Sneaking off to a room, closet, or bathroom during a holiday party can be an exciting and erotic way to become sexually intimate in the moment, and it will be a time that is guaranteed to always be remembered!

2. Sex after a Holiday party! A great and even more intimate and erotic way to share sexual intimacy is alone together, after attending a Christmas or holiday party! You've both enjoyed a fun, holiday evening, with friends or co-workers, and that sets up the perfect moment to engage in intimacy afterwards. There's something about the holiday that brings warmness and closeness to one another. Celebrating that intimacy alone together, after having celebrated with friends prior, is a great way to achieve an amazing night of closeness.

3. Erotic Gift Giving! The holidays provide an awesome opportunity to increase intimacy through erotic gift giving. This can range from lingerie or sexy outfits to sex toys, erotic oils, ointments and other sexy intimacy aids. Surprising your partner dressed up as a sexy Misses Santa Clause in revealing holiday lingerie can be outrageously erotic!

Don't miss this holiday opportunity for exciting sexual intimacy to occur!

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By Chess McDoogle

Are You Too Busy to Preserve the Intimacy?

Intimacy isn't an automatic response. Intimacy isn't a given because you love someone or feel loved by someone. Intimacy doesn't come with a commitment or with a marriage license. The basic, fundamental element of intimacy is cherishing each other!

Creating, nurturing and maintaining intimacy in long-term, committed relationships is the toughest and the most worthwhile undertaking one can accomplish.

It requires intention, deliberate choice and deliberate action. Nothing about creating intimacy and truly being intimate with another person is unconscious. Closeness is enhanced through purposeful sensitivity, tenderness and respect for each other.

Intimacy is the result of celebrating each other; celebrating each other's presence and celebrating being in each other's presence!

* Be appreciative.
* Offer acknowledgment.
* Give your partner the benefit of the doubt.
* Be the most ardent cheerleader.
* Be an enthusiastic supporter.
* Applaud your partner's efforts.
* Extol his or her virtues.
* Be generous of spirit and open hearted.
* Always remember to be encouraging.

Be intentional. Be certain that your deliberate choice and deliberate action send the unmistakable message that you are happy to be with her or him and that your life is better and richer with her or him than it could ever be alone. Take the time to truly develop, take care of and preserve the intimacy of your relationship, and you will enjoy the warmth and tenderness of the relationship you want and deserve.

Remember, only YOU can make it happen!

Copyright Dr. Jackie Black 2008
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Dr. Jackie is the author of Meeting Your Match - Cracking the Code to Successful Relationships; and the founder of Dr. Jackie's Ideal Match Coaching Club, a destination, membership web site developed to support men and women who are committed to learning and practicing essential relationship success skills.

By Dr. Jackie Black

12 Qualities To Have Intimacy In A Conscious Relationship

Intimacy is an essential part of Co-Creating a Conscious Relationship™. Learning what intimacy is -- and what intimacy means - can take you a long way on your Journey from "I-TO-WE"™. Look at these qualities and see which ones apply to your relationship. Adopt the ones you like and create your own as well.

Remember, intimacy is not some magical dust that is bestowed onto you. You must make a conscious effort with your partner to plan for and work together to create and maintain intimacy in your relationship.

1. Make your partner feel special, safe, loved, and cared for

2. Learn to listen, understand, and empathize with your partner's Intimacy Language

3. Let your defenses down and trust

4. Be honest and courageous, remove any emotional blockage, and open your heart

5. Lift the veil of denial and accept absolute personal responsibility for your words and actions

6. Learn, stretch, grow, mature, and change

7. Put yourself in your partner's shoes, understanding and empathizing with his or her perspective

8. Change negative habits, behaviors, and attitudes

9. Give unselfishly and unconditionally

10. Put your own needs aside and focus on satisfying your partner's needs

11. Compromise and plan to give intimacy

12. Remain conscious of working to create intimacy every day

I hope you and your partner

Gain the Awareness, Learn the Skills and

Practice the Techniques so you are successful on your

Journey from "I-TO-WE"™ to live your lives as each other's

Best Friends During the Day,

Lovers at Night, and

Partners for Life™

By Glenn Cohen

What is Intimacy?

Intimacy in a relationship is the process of revealing yourself too the other person involved. Yet we spend most of our time and energy keeping our true selves from each other in a relationship.

We need and want intimacy but choose to keep secrets.

Being intimate means opening up all the closets of you mind, body, soul, and heart with another human being who is also imperfect just like you.

To experience intimacy you must allow another person to know:

* What drives you?
* What inspires you?
* What moves you?
* What upsets you?
* What your goals in life are
* What scares you?
* The enemies that you have inside your head
* The dreams and passions of your heart

Intimacy requires that you take off your mask of life and just like an onion you peel off and reveal layer upon layer of your true self.

There is no greater gift than revealing everything that shapes and directs your life that you can give to a person.

When you allow another person into your mind, body, soul, and heart you have done all that intimacy requires.

Now it is important to understand that not all relationships are worth or deserve such complete intimacy, however your primary relationship should be, even if it's only with yourself.

What is intimacy?

Intimacy is the process of giving yourself completely in self-revelation.

Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men and creator of Dating Advice and Tips for Men which provides an abundance of information for men on dating and more. If you would like more information on how to attract, seduce and meet women sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men today.

The Four Aspects of Intimacy

Intimacy is a combination of four aspects of a person; the physical, emotional, intellectual, and the spiritual. Most relationships will fall into one or two of these intimate aspects.

Physical Intimacy

Physical intimacy s the easiest one to be involved in, it usually begins with a handshake or a hug. In general the more attracted you are to someone the more touching that will occur.

Emotional Intimacy

We tend to guard ourselves from getting emotionally attached to people too quickly therefore it usually takes more time to develop emotional intimacy with someone. This is when we begin to share our opinions, feelings, fears, and dreams.

Intellectual Intimacy

Just like emotional intimacy, it takes longer to establish than physical intimacy. However, it does so because intellectual intimacy requires a number of different experiences. Conversations based on different types of cultural and political events that allow you to reveal your own personal philosophy of life; is the most common way to create intellectual intimacy.

Spiritual Intimacy

Spiritual intimacy is the rarest and most challenging form of intimacy. Spiritual intimacy has little to do with religious beliefs as couples with identical and different religious beliefs can achieve spiritual intimacy.

Spiritual intimacy is a respect for each other that turns into each person doing everything in their power to make the other person the best version of him/herself.

To understand intimacy we must move beyond physical intimacy and begin to know all four aspects of intimacy.

To know someone in all four or even in more than one intimate level makes each level of intimate knowledge that much better.

Teddy Shabba is a Dating Coach for Men and creator of Dating Advice and Tips for Men which provides an abundance of information for men on dating and more. If you would like more information on how to attract, seduce and meet women sign up for the Teddy Shabba Dating Advice Newsletter for Men today.

By Teddy Shabba

Sexy Ways to Pump Up Passion

Does your sex life have about as much dazzle as an old, beat up penny? Do you love your partner, but feel sad that sex just isn't the same as it used to be? It doesn't have to be that way. Here are the top 8 ways to put the passion back into your relationship.
1. Plan for passion. Maybe you don't remember, but some of your best lovemaking sessions happened when you knew you had a special date. Spontaneity is nice because it doesn't happen that often. So, plan.
2. Make your partner feel wanted. Tell your partner they're hot, sexy, and gorgeous and that you can't wait to get them alone--and mean it.
3. Stay fit. If you have a paunch, it isn't fair to complain about your partner's pot belly being a turn off. You should both make a commitment to keep your bodies in decent shape for yourselves and for one another.
4. Admit your feelings. No point hiding your boredom. If you haven't said anything yet, do. Your partner might feel the same way. Now you can work on having some fun together.
5. Go exploring. You may think you know every inch of your partner's body, but I'll bet you don't. When was the last time you kissed your partner's ankle? The inside of their thigh? The nape of their neck? Either find body parts you've missed, or go back and revisit a few faves.
7. Do something new. No, not a new toy, potion, or lotion. Something more exhilarating. Go mountain-biking together. Play tennis. Try a Vietnamese restaurant. Something to wake up all of your senses, not just your privates.
8. Use fantasy. And use it together. Tell one another your most erotic ideas. (Best to leave out relatives and close neighbors, though!) Make a rule that there's no judgment, and that you don't have to act them out. Maybe you'll see that your partner's mind is a whole lot sexier than you realized.
Eight ideas for pumping up passion, but surely you can think of more. When it comes to sex, humans are very creative creatures! Let go of your inhibitions, and you'll probably find out that there's lots more you can do to ignite a sex life that's gone cold.

by Dr. Stephanie Buehler

13 Things Women Want in a Man

You may think that women want someone who is buffed and tanned and looks like a bodybuilder model from GQ. Those things are nice and yes we like to look at those guys, but just like you don’t need for us to look like Victoria Secret models we don’t require it in our man. OK. The 13 most important qualities that women look for in a man are:
1. Honesty
2. Intelligence
3. Nice Smile
4. Sense of Humor
5. Manners
6. Sensitivity
7. Sincerity
8. Gainfully employed
9. Has own place
10. Owns a car
11. Affectionate
12. Considerate
13. Thoughtful
OK. First things first. Honesty is the NUMBER ONE trait that women look for in a man. That doesn’t mean to be brutally honest and tell her she looks fat. (Never do that) but we want to know that we can trust that what you are telling us is the truth. If you’ve lied in the past it will be a very cold day in Hell before she trusts you again. And she may want to check your phone messages and read your email and call you 10 times a day to feel secure that you’re trustworthy again. You may not like that but if you lie it may be the price you have to pay.

Intelligence: Women want to feel safe and protected and we want our men to be smart. Maybe even smarter than us. Women feel that your brain is your sexiest organ. So dazzle us with your brain and you will be surprised how stimulated we become. Kick her ass at “Jeopardy” and watch what happens.

Smile: We love your smile. We can’t get enough of it. It makes us want to touch you and kiss you. So brush and floss and see your dentist and keep your mouth kissably fresh.

Sense of Humor: If you can keep us laughing you are golden. We love to laugh and we love a man who can make us laugh. This goes back to the smart thing as well. You have to be smart to be humorous. We like a man who’s humor challenges us. Leave that 3 Stooges stuff for the guys. Women don’t appreciate 12 year old juvenile humor.

Manners: Little things like manners are very important. Women don’t want their man to drive up and reach over from the driver’s seat and open the passenger door or just wait for us to open the door. A little old fashioned chivalry goes a long way. Escort the lady to the car and open the door for her. We love to be treated like queens. It makes us feel like you think we’re special. And hopefully you do think she’s special. We love a man with manners. We know we can take him home and our parents will love him. We don’t want to have to worry about what you might do or say. We want to be with a man not a boy. That means no farting, belching, toe or nose picking, spitting, or smacking your lips when you eat. We want to know we can take you in public and we won’t be embarrassed. And don’t forget we also like to show you off to our girlfriends and we want them to approve. You want the girlfriends to think you’re a “Keeper”.

Sensitive: That whole thing about being “Sensitive” and getting in touch with your “Feminine Side” are all very true. A woman is waaaay more attracted to a man who isn’t afraid to show his feelings and be gentle and sensitive. We actually think that makes you more manly. A man who clams up and thinks being macho is what we want is very wrong. One of the things that is extremely attractive to a woman is when it’s obvious that you are attracted to us. There is nothing hotter than seeing how much we turn you on. Don’t be afraid to show that. But of course there are limits and this can easily be overdone. Be careful about showing things like that at work or you might find yourself in a sexual harassment situation. And if you decide to try to tip your hand to a woman and show your interest, remember to keep it subtle. No woman likes a STALKER or a HORNDOG! We love to know that we are getting to you, but not in an obnoxious way. You may have to make some changes in your behavior. But of course, they’ll be changes for the better and you will most likely be happier for it.

Sincerity: This is a little like honesty, but what I mean is if you need to change some of your behaviors to be more attractive to women then don’t just do it to get the girl. This is something that has to be real. If you think that’s not you, then maybe you should think about making a change. You can decide you don’t want to change, that you like yourself the way you are, but if that was working for you then you probably wouldn’t be reading this article. You were drawn to this piece because you must truly want to know how to be better with women and if you sincerely do then you may need to take an honest look at yourself and decide what you want because it has to be real.

Employed: OK. This is a no-brainer, but truthfully there are some men out there without jobs that think they can get all the women they want. I have no idea what makes them think that, but their egos are on overtime. Women need security and we want a man who can provide for us. That doesn’t mean we don’t want to work, but it does mean that we want to know that you are a responsible MAN.

Has Own Place: OK. Matthew McConaughey was really cute in Failure to Launch but that was a comedy. Seriously we don’t want to have a sleepover at your Mom’s house. Having your own place just shows us again that you are a responsible adult. And it does help if your place is decorated nicely. I don’t mean you have to hire a decorator, but we’re not drawn to frathouse chic. Impress us with your style. Again we want MEN not BOYS!

Has Own Car: This may not be important if you live in New York or in a place where the public transportation makes owning a car unnecessary but in most of the world you need a car to pick up your date and take her out. It is important to mention here that even though we love luxury cars we don’t need that in our man. Women love men with all kinds of cars, but FYI keep your car clean (especially the inside). Nothing says SLOB more than a dirty car. Take out the fast food wrappers and keep it neat and smelling nice.

Affectionate: We really do love to touch and be touched. And I am not talking sexually here. But try holding her hand when she’s not expecting it or gently rubbing her back. Little touchy things like that mean a lot. Rub her arm when you’re reading the paper or do little things like foot and hand massages. Women love that.

Be Considerate: We appreciate the little things like holding a door open or not walking ahead of us. If we’re sleeping make sure you turn out the light when you leave. Show her you care by picking up after yourself. When you get some dessert out of the fridge ask if she’d like some or make sure you leave some for her. Just basic consideration is so important to us.

Thoughtfullness: This may sound like consideration, but it goes a little further. Being thoughtful of her needs goes a long way. Maybe give her a call from work just to see how she’s doing. While we love that we don’t want to be smothered with a bunch of calls all day long. Bring something home for her when you go to the store, like some fresh flowers (I know that’s cliché, but that’s because it works) or maybe some of her favorite ice cream…just because. This shows us that you are thinking of us and that makes us feel important and special.

Those 2 words important and special should be burned into your brain. If you can always make a woman feel important and special you will be an irrisistable Chick Magnet.

by: Patti Oar

Buying Sexy Ladies Nightwear As A Gift

Valentine's Day brings thoughts of romantic ladies nightwear. Yet many men are unsure and confused about the varying styles that are available. Nonetheless, nightwear is relatively easy to purchase as a gift, as the sizing is much less complicated than with many lingerie items. Provided here is a men's guide to ladies nightwear.

Nightgown

A nightgown is probably the most traditional of all ladies nightwear. The nightgown is available in many forms, from ankle length to mid-thigh or above. Flannel is a traditional warm fabric for cold winter nights, but is not often considered romantic or sexy. Silk and satin are luxurious and romantic nightgown fabrics, while more risqué options include lace, mesh and even sheer fabrics. A short, sleek nightgown is often called a negligee or baby doll.

Chemise

A chemise is a short, body-skimming garment that can be used as both ladies nightwear and an alternative to a bra or slip. Chemises are often silk lingerie items, although there are other fabric options as well. The chemise is both sexy and comfortable, making it an excellent and very versatile option.

Pyjamas

Although pyjamas are often thought of a men's alternative, ladies nightwear has grown to include feminized versions of pyjamas. Ladies pyjama styles are generally cute and flirty as opposed to outright sexy, but offer the woman a comfortable and stylish alternative for lounging at home on days off. Consider silk lingerie styles such as soft pants matched with a silk tank top.

Boy Shorts

Boy shorts are a cute, comfortable and sexy alternative to traditional panties. Many women love to sleep in boy shorts paired with a tank top or soft camisole top. Look for cute styles featuring fun patterns or slogans. This is a great option for sporty women who may not enjoy the fussy look of a nightgown or silk pyjama set.

Robes and Accessories

In order to truly complete a ladies nightwear gift, consider adding a robe or other accessory. Ladies' robes are available in a wide range of styles, making it easy to find the perfect choice. A full-length robe is an excellent choice to provide coverage over a sexy nightwear option. If there are others living in the home, the full-length robe may be the best choice. If modesty is not a concern, consider a very short robe in silk or satin. To further enhance a sexy nightwear selection, look for a matching robe in a sheer fabric.

Other accessories vary dramatically. Perhaps a pair of high-heeled bedroom slippers would be a great choice. A pair of thigh high stockings would enhance a sexy ladies nightwear choice. Use your imagination when shopping for accessories, looking for those items that best compliment the nightwear that you have chosen.

Ladies nightwear is an excellent choice for men looking for a romantic Valentine's Day gift. It is easy to choose the correct size, while the range of options ensures that it is easy to find just the right outfit. Make sure to allow time to find accessories, creating the perfect complete outfit.

by: Amanda Cotterill